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Coronavirus (COViD-19)

During a time of crisis, any crisis, but specifically one of such magnitude as the coronavirus, people need simple straightforward facts from experts, or those who understand the information presented by the experts. And we need them to tell us when they legitmately don't know the answer to the question but assure the public they will get an answer as soon as possible. We can accept those parameters.

The general public is already experiencing unmatched fears and anxiety, with a lot of unknowns. While we need hope and optimism to get us through these challenging times, we do not need false hope, inaccurate information, or one's "feeling" about what certain outcomes will be, especially when they have no expertise or evidence to support it.

When someone does give misinformation it is their responsibility to own it and correct it. Mistakes happen, but willful ignorance, selfishness, and ineptitude are inexcusable and indefensible.

This is not about an individual person or persons, this is about every person in this nation and around the world. If someone is spreading misinformation, embellishing on information with personal feelings about it, or flat out lying they need to be confronted and called out.

This also isn't about what happened in the past, there has been nothing like this in our lifetime. It's about understanding the seriousness (or potential seriousness) of a situation and acting accordingly.

The only people who should receive praise are the ones working on the front lines, healthcare professionals, janitorial staff, food preparers, manufacturers, anyone who has to deliver any and all supplies and food, etc.

Certain elected officials don't need constant praise; they just need to do their jobs which is representing the citizens of the country they serve. Many should be praised for providing the necessary information and assistance the public desperately needs in a way that allays their fears.

Not everyone responds well in a crisis, and this crisis I'm sure has brought that to light in many ways. It's ok if you're scared or unsure what to do/say... Just move aside, don't interfere, and let those who can do it do it. There's always something for you to do that will help someone in need.

We will get through this, we are super resilient and tough. If we work together and do our part we will be ok. Thinking positive, being optimistic but vigilant, with a dash of common sense will win out in the end.  

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